The Great Lover Playbook by Lou Paget

Author:Lou Paget
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Penguin Publishing Group
Published: 2010-02-28T16:00:00+00:00

174. Ladies, Rather Than Rush to Clean Up after Sex, Whet Your Man’s Primal Power and Leave Some of Him Inside of You.

This is another of those, if-men-hadn’t-told-me-I-wouldn’t-know secrets. There is something very primal about a man sharing his “seed,” his most-male fluid with you, and for him to know it still resides in you touches and connects him to you as few things can. As one man said, “Every time I am with her, and I know this may not be politically correct, I love knowing that for the next day while she is out in the world, I am still there with her as she still has some of me inside her.” And there is a pure physiological reason to maintain him inside of you and not break the spell of sexual connection: the bonding hormone that gets released during sex and orgasm—oxytocin. This would be Mother Nature’s way of strengthening your relationship. Some women rush out of bed and into the bathroom right after sex—mostly because we live in a “neatnik” culture that has created a negative association with our bodily fluids. These fluids are the source of life—how could they be negative in any way? Furthermore, not only does such rushing away from your lover break the intimacy of the moment, putting a cold distance between you, you also unwittingly signal to your lover that you feel unclean. If you knew how many men in my seminars have reported how wonderful they feel when their lady lets that part of him nestle inside of her, you may think twice. As one man said, “It makes me feel that we are one.” So unless you are using a condom, let him linger inside of you.

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